The question this year that I sought an answer for is: why do I do what I do? I have put a lot of thought to that question. And I believe I have the answer. The answer is simply because it’s what I am supposed to do.
My passion for wanting to show people there’s a better way to achieve their dreams, goals with fun, profitability, balance and a sense of purpose… started when I was about 12 or 13.
- I don’t know why, I don’t know how it started. For many years I never really even talked about this. It was just simply something that I knew, deep in my heart was a reason for putting my 150% into everything I do.
- I believe that part of that passion came from a personal frustration of wanting to know more, to do more. I was big city born, small town bred.
- I was searching for answers for who I was and what my purpose in life was. I did not know where to find those answers, and I sought out a lot of guidance from adult friends and people who were in my life.
Unfortunately, the answers I sought never really came from an external source. I tried many things to discover what types of activities interests and work I liked, didn’t like, wanted to or did not want to do.
I knew from a young age that I wanted to be on stage in front of people blessing them with music and my words, but it seem like there was something more needed. That part of my vision seemed incomplete. But what did complete it, was the understanding that my music and my words were a door (or a vehicle) to connect with people.
I knew that by being available to be a good friend and mentor to others that I could share with others who were searching for answers and support about their life- that they did not have to a long sad and frustrated time trying to figure out their purpose in life.
Growing up, I had seen too many people with lines of hardship on their face. They were good people, who had work ethic, family. They usually had a job, but something always seemed to be missing. Although they laughed, when I would look into their eyes, and I would hear how they would speak, what I picked up on all too often was a sense of sadness, loneliness and frustration. I could feel that they seemed stuck in their life. I picked up on a sense of despair. They were stuck in a rut called their life, and although options and choices and doors of opportunity were all around them. They either didn’t see those doors, or they didn’t believe they could open them and walk through. I would watch these people over the years, and that same hardness, sadness, loneliness and frustration never went away.
I was always the square peg in a round hole, and I realized from a very early age that geographically, where I lived, although it was in a small town, if I wanted something more, all I had to do was drive to a bigger town.
There were big towns all around us. If you were willing to drive for an hour or two, the world could be your oyster. I used to spend a lot of time in the library, and I would read books…lots of books. Through reading I learned about life beyond the cities that surrounded us. (this was way before PC’s and Google) Again, I knew that choices could be made and that resources were always around if you were willing to take a chance and reached out to somewhere beyond your comfort zone.
This is a lot of information for young girl to understand, but the fact is that I did.
It is still the same realization that is part of the passion that drives me today to help other people step beyond their comfort zone to realize their dreams.
Technology has opened up a whole new world. You don’t have to even have to leave your home anymore to open doors of opportunity!
So my passion to help people discover what doors they want to open and walk through, be empowered to make healthy, strong, solid choices -and avoid as many pitfalls as possible along the way- is even stronger than it was when I was a young girl.
So, when I ask myself why do (teach, lead, mentor, grow my businesses that provide valuable services, information, resources to help others be their best, be successful) … I do it- it is simply because I know, for me, it is the right thing to do.
What is it in your life that you want to do, you know you should do- but have been afraid to try? This is the year to take a step and open a door of opportunity for a new year and a new you!